Thirty years ago I would have never thought that my two sons who are 9 years apart in age would be getting married within a year of each other, but that's how it has worked out. Over the year we have learned 'wedding speak' and now know the issues involved with this process. From my Appalachian roots getting married was not a very complicated process. My parents got a license, found a preacher, and were married beside the road about a mile from their home. No one attended the wedding except these three people. They went back to one of the parents' houses and lived there until they could manage to have a home of their own. Few families had parties or celebrations. From my so called more modern world, I've often thought this was a bit odd, but believed it was the custom for a 1929 Appalachian wedding.
In a recent phone call with our son we learned that they have not chosen to have a traditional wedding cake; instead they want Appalachian Stack Cake and assorted Italian cookies (from her heritage) for a reception that will host around 200 people. Hearing this I immediately went into a conversation within my own head, "How will I manage to make 15-20 stack cakes assuming that each one serves ten to twelve people?" While they can be purchased through Apple Barn, I would love to be able to provide them since I take pride in being able to make them. Being able to make a great apple stack cake is one of my family traditions. They were my mother's favorite cake to serve to guests.
From my son's research on apple stack
cakes, he learned they were traditional celebratory cakes for many
Appalachian holiday and church events. As it were, each family or friend
contributed one cake layer which was brought to the event and assembled
with the dried apple mixture. Thus, the more people who brought a
layer, the higher the stack cake became, and the more respect and popularity you
had in the community. A ten layer cake would signify a very respected person, or two or three ten layer stack cakes would mean an even larger sphere of influence and popularity.
While I haven't yet answered how I will manage making enough Appalachian Stack Cakes to provide my part of the dessert for 200 people, I'm pretty sure I won't be able to count on each of our guests bringing one cake layer to the wedding. My most recent plan consists of calling my cousin who also makes stack cakes and asking her to join me in an 'apple stack cake cook off' for this event. If all else fails, I suppose there's always Apple Barn.
Below is a link for an Appalachian Stack Cake.
http://www.appalachianhistory.net
patsyhlawson@gmail.com
Patty,
ReplyDeleteI have a few questions about the friendship wedding cake. My fiancé and I would like to do this for our wedding and were just wondering the ins and outs of this. We love the idea and want this as our wedding cake. How do you go about asking people? We were thinking of putting a box in the RSVP card for an opportunity for each guest to check off if they would like to make a layer. There isn't much how to's on this type of cake so any information would be very much appreciated.
Thank you,
Hattie